Friday, May 16, 2014

OFF THE ROAD



A closet full of clothes, unpaid bills and a yard that needs mowed, that’s what you get when you come back home. The closet part isn’t so bad, you reacquaint yourself with stuff you forgot you had. Living out of a suitcase and back pack does simplify choices. Finding the balance between clean and dirty is never complicated. But one has to rediscover an appetite for common, day to day routines. I have a stack of bills that I’ll get around to, maybe tomorrow; and the house gets dirty whether I’m home or not. Thunder and lightning remind me that tornado season runs concurrently with graduation parties so you do both, hoping for the best. Once the jet stream and cool air stay up north, we will settle into warm nights and grilling on the patio. 
This last trip to South Korea and New Zealand has dumped some of the wind out of my sails. That’s lots of hours at 35,000 ft. and many meals I’d just as soon have fixed for myself. I’ll never complain about being on the road; something about being in motion that cures what ails me. But it’s also nice to know the car is just a few steps away and my telephone works again. When I got back from Argentina & Chile in 2005, my daughter Sarah picked me up at the airport. The photo she took says a lot. Last Sunday the scene was much the same except it was my son Jon doing the duty. Getting off the last airplane, knowing you don’t have to scurry to make the next connection or find a temporary bed is a well earned relief and I can pass a couple of months in domestic tranquility before I loop back into road culture. 
My granddaughter graduates from high school tonight. I taught school for 34 years and graduation was both a duty and a celebration. ‘School’s out, school’s out; teacher let the monkeys out.” Still, by the end of summer it has a way losing its luster, little more than history and life doesn’t look back. Something new will fill the void. Best friends will go their own ways, little siblings will inherit better rooms but endure closer scrutiny from parents. College or a full time job, September will offer new challenges to both graduates and their families. I’m out of that loop too. But come September I bet I’ll be on the road again, anticipating the way home and my own bed again. 

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

APPLES & PEANUT BUTTER



Music is as much a part of my experience as food. If I’m out of earshot, the DJ inside my head kicks in, synthesizing rhythms and melodies that I know by heart. I never got to be in a school band or study music theory. Sheet music is like Morse Code to me, easy concept but just never took the time. It’s always been the stories; 2 to 4 minute, syncopated stories that begin and end, dance with a melody like Gene Kelly, “Singing In The Rain.” Without a story to know where you’re going and where you’ve been, it’s little more than satisfying noise. So when I’m on the road, I do the best I can. My computer is full of great music and I usually fall asleep, sinking into my I-Tunes library. Head phones and ear buds let you do that, even in a crowded air terminal. 
I’ve dabbled with guitars enough that I know which chords work together and how to transition from one key to another. My singing leaves a lot to be desired but then I sing for my own satisfaction. If I know the words and can shape chords to fit the melody, I can entertain myself for hours. If nothing else, I can retire from the real world and let that DJ in my mind do his thing. I’ve been into love songs lately, making a list of my favorites. The list is only five songs deep but that may be enough. Then I hear a great blues piece and can’t get it out of my head. In 2012, the Kennedy Center Awards honored, among others, Buddy Guy. On that stage, Jimmy Vaughn & Gary Clark Jr. performed together, “Things I Used To Do.” With YouTube available; no reason for anybody not to have seen this, several times. Then, if it’s not Marcia Ball or Kermit Ruffins, you never lose with Barbara Streisand or Neil Young. 
The road is winding down. Waiting at airline gates and double checking flight status are more the business than the places I didn’t get to see. I’m leaning more on my music and less on road maps. For all the great food I encounter, my universal pantry is stocked in my suit case, enough to get me home; apples and peanut butter. Don’t leave home without them. I’m listening to Don McLean in my head; maybe the best love sone ever: “And I love you so, people ask me how; how I’ve lived till now, I tell them I don’t know.”

Sunday, May 4, 2014

HOSTEL



Everybody knows hotels and motels but hostels are cut from different cloth. People on the road need a place to shut down and unwind. Inn keepers around the world host them, meet that need, for a price. On the other hand, hostels are similar but it’s a communal process where strangers share a dormitory space, sleep in bunks, end around the room. Genderless bathrooms with doored shower stalls and toilets accommodate travelers who prefer the collective rather than privacy. Cooking in common kitchens and gathering around a big screen T.V., watching programs subtitled in English or German, for those who don’t speak Japanese or Italian; that’s what you get at a hostel. Of course, the price makes travel affordable for students and wanderers who long to see the world before it passes them by. American comedian, Jonathan Winters once said, “I couldn’t wait for success so I went on without it.” He would have stayed in hostels. I can hostel in Auckland, New Zealand or Mendoza, Argentina for a week on the money it would take for one night in a hotel or motel there. 
I remember a rainy day in Valdivia, Chile; back in 2005. When my bus arrived in the middle of the day, I took the cheapest dorm room, threw my stuff on one of five beds, put on my rain coat and took off to see the town. A few miles down stream, the river emptied into the Pacific Ocean. Bull seals were stationed stream side along the pilings at the fish market. They knew exactly where fish mongers would throw the next fish head and were there to snap it up. When I got back to the hostel, someone was rolled up in a blanket on another bed. I saw eyes peering out at me and I asked in my best English, “And, who might you be.?” I didn’t expect to be understood. Not much English spoken down there. Her name was Esra Moogle, a Turkish Jew in her 40’s, just sold her business in Istanbul and traveling. Fluent in 9 languages, she informed me (after a brief introduction and conversation) that we would travel together for a few days. The next night we were at a hostel in Puerto Varas, Chile, hanging out with two young women, one European the other a mestiza, both lawyers from Buenos Aries. There was a young, particle physicist from San Paulo who loved the blues and his beautiful companion. They were married but not to each other. That’s how it has to work in South America where the church forbids divorce. If you can afford to get away, you steal away cross the border and  take your forbidden fruit with you. I cooked, Esra translated, we all sang and told stories. The next day the lawyers went south with us, into Argentina and the lovers headed north. Something about hostels that overcomes modesty and makes everyone equal. 
In Auckland, NZ, Nomad’s Hostel is just off Queen Street, a couple of blocks from the harbor. It’s an old, 5-story building nested down between tall, glass and steel towers in the country’s largest city. There is a bar on the top floor with an open ceiling, like sports stadiums in the States except this open dome didn’t have a closable roof. When it rained, the dance floor got rained on and you had to walk around the room to get to the bar. Up and outside, the lights from office buildings modeled starlight with a pseudo Grand Canyon feel. Most of the backpackers were young, looking for whatever they look for. I talked with an old timer, probably not as old as me but certainly more weathered who thought everything was going to hell. He said, “We used to go alone and met everybody, learn about everything. Now they come and go in two’s and three’s, with their smart phones. They watch the t.v. and text their girl or boy friends back in Germany, or Skype their mothers back in Israel. They have more money and it’s all about them. Nobody talks, it’s like zombie land compared to the 80’s and 90’s.” I couldn’t speak to the 90’s but just ten years ago, technology in Chile and Argentina was a blurry, old, 14” computer at an internet cafe for $1.50 and check your email.  
I didn’t stick around. He was right and if you didn’t bring along your own companion, you might as well be on an iceberg somewhere. I went to a guitar jam at the Thirsty Dog, on Karangahape Street. When I arrived, I knew one person. I met Tony at the Unitarian Church the day before. He is a 70-something, Irish transplant. He doesn’t play guitar but he sings. The guitars find his key and slip in under him. He promised someone would loan me a guitar and I could get my turns at the mic. Closing time we had made a lot of music and I was invited back. I did St. James Infirmary Blues and Over The Rainbow. Then when my turn came around again, I asked for help, in the key of E. I laid down a 12-bar blues rhythm and they all took turns noodling blues licks and riffs. It was a great evening and Tony drove me back down town, to Nomad’s. In the lounge, there were 20 or so young people laying all over the furniture and beanbag pillows on the floor, watching Arnold Schwarzenegger on the t.v., venting destruction with a rocket launcher in one hand and a flame thrower in the other. Except, some of them had dozed off and others were texting their boy or girls friends across town or across an ocean. I showered and went to bed. The music from the club under our window, down on the street was loud but that’s what you get. If you don’t like it, you can throw down $140 and take a cab over to the Best Western President Hotel. They will guarantee your privacy.